THE WORD IN THE
GOSPEL
Matthew 25:1-13
[Jesus taught the people, saying,] “At that time the
kingdom of heaven will be like ten young bridesmaids who took their lamps and
went out to meet the groom. Now five of them were wise, and the other five were
foolish. The foolish ones took their lamps but didn’t bring oil for them. But
the wise ones took their lamps and also brought containers of oil.
“When the groom was late in coming, they all became drowsy
and went to sleep. But at midnight there was a cry, ‘Look, the groom! Come out
to meet him.’
“Then all those bridesmaids got up and prepared their
lamps. But the foolish bridesmaids said to the wise ones, ‘Give us some of your
oil, because our lamps have gone out.’
“But the wise bridesmaids replied, ‘No, because if we share
with you, there won’t be enough for our lamps and yours. We have a better idea.
You go to those who sell oil and buy some for yourselves.’ But while they were
gone to buy oil, the groom came. Those who were ready went with him into the
wedding. Then the door was shut.
“Later the other bridesmaids came and said, ‘Lord, lord,
open the door for us.’
“But he replied, ‘I tell you the truth, I don’t know you.’
“Therefore, keep alert, because you don’t know the day or
the hour.”
MESSAGE
It’s
hard to imagine such a thing happening at a modern wedding, isn’t it? Hard to
imagine that half of the bridesmaids would be caught off-guard without something
they needed for the ceremony.
Nowadays,
a lot of weddings are really big productions, planned and perfectly
orchestrated by professional wedding planners. A few years ago, Jennifer Lopez
starred in a movie called, appropriately, “The Wedding Planner.” She played a
character named Mary Fiore, who was a meticulous and devoted professional
wedding planner.
In
the opening scenes, she is coordinating a very big, expensive, and fabulous
wedding, and everything is going along smoothly until . . . the father of the
bride goes missing-in-action. After a bit of searching, Mary finds him,
slightly drunk and a bit hysterical, crying about the little girl who’s now all
grown up, and Mary goes into action. She pulls back her suit jacket to reveal a
James Bond-like kit around her waist in which she carries something for every
possible wedding emergency. She has aspirin, safety pins, smelling salts, wet
wipes, Krazy Glue, scissors, breath spray . . . Well, Mary sprays some water in
this father of the bride's face and herds him back to get ready to walk his
daughter down the aisle.